The Pay-to-Play Philosophy
These are not rules; they are the laws of your queendom. Violators will be fined, blocked, or both.
Law 1: Attention is Billable
Your DMs are a VIP lounge, not a public park. Entry requires payment. Your replies are consultations, billed accordingly.
Law 2: Silence is Default
The most powerful shutdown is no response. It communicates that they are beneath your notice. Use it ruthlessly.
Law 3: Monetize, Don't Apologize
Never apologize for your prices or your rules. When a boundary is crossed, your only question is: "What's the invoice for this?"
The High Cost of 'Free'
Every minute spent on a non-paying fan is a dollar stolen from your empire. The data is clear: boundaries are the bedrock of a profitable business.
Monthly Income: Doormat vs. Dominant
The "Doormat" creator answers every DM, gets drained by time-wasters, and makes hobby money. The "Dominant" Queen enforces her pay-to-play system, attracts high-value fans, and builds an empire. The choice is a business decision.
The Shutdown Workflow
A simple, repeatable decision matrix for handling incoming DMs. Execute without emotion.
INCOMING DM
Does it include a tribute?
Provide value. Reply.
Is it disrespectful?
INVOICE & BLOCK
IGNORE OR REDIRECT
Systems That Bank: Your Fee Structure
Turn their mistakes into your income. Post this on your profile. Enforce it without exception.
Unsolicited Pic Fine
$50
Disrespectful Language Tax
$100
Price Haggling Penalty
$150
Reinstatement Fee (After Block)
$250